The tinghun is a time-honored tradition that shows two families’ solidarity as their children commit to spending the rest of their lives together. Like any tradition or practice, it follows a strict flow that ensures good luck, prosperity, life, and the best of health for the engaged couple.
Tiffany and Don’s love story began in the most unexpected of places—a Facebook group called FIL-CHI Kaishao Group. Created to help single Chinoys connect, this group flourished during the pandemic. Tiffany and Don’s friends, eager to play matchmakers, tagged them in posts, and soon a mutual friend made the connection. At first, things didn’t seem to click, but Richmond’s persistence won out, and the two began building a meaningful connection.
Fast forward to June 2023, Tiffany was invited on a road trip to Tagaytay by a close friend who claimed to need a break from work. What Tiffany didn’t know was that her friend was an accomplice in Don’s proposal plan. They stalled her for hours, leading to a grand, heartwarming surprise. The proposal took Tiffany completely by surprise, leaving her speechless but overjoyed.
In today’s world, engagements can take many different forms. Some tips for making a modern-day proposal special include:
Make it personal: Tiff and Don kept the traditional tinghun elements like walking backwards, the tea ceremony and the exchange of jewelry and carrying of sinna (gift). But nowadays, couples can tailor the proposal to something meaningful in your relationship, whether it’s a special location, a shared hobby, a heartfelt letter, or personalized cakes.
Collaborate with loved ones: Involving family or friends can add a sentimental touch, just like Tiffany’s friend did, making the moment even more special.
Capture the moment: Whether it’s hiring a photographer or having someone discreetly record, it’s wonderful to have a keepsake of the proposal.
Tiffany and Don’s story shows that love can bloom in the most unconventional circumstances, and that the most memorable moments often come when you least expect them.
Don and Tiffany’s Tinghun Dream Team: Photography and Video: Amady Manila | Coordinator: Tinghun Guru | Hair and Makeup: Belle Does Makeup | Gown: Wear Easy PH | Host: Louie Ngo
