WE Team
The Engagement of Raymond Tan and Shanel Tan
Raymond and Shanel’s ting hun was a heartfelt celebration that honored tradition while thoughtfully centering the people who came to witness their next chapter.
From the very first moments, it was clear that this wasn’t just an engagement, it was an experience carefully imagined, felt, and shared.
The day began with Shanel stepping into a gown that felt unmistakably her. True to form, it featured her signature cut-off detail, something even guests immediately recognized.
“It’s not a Shanel gown without a cut-off!” some exclaimed, while others simply said, “The dress is so you talaga,” a sentiment Shanel took to heart.
For her, authenticity mattered most. “I wanted everything to feel like us—nothing forced, nothing just for show,” she shared.
As guests arrived, the couple’s intentionality became even more apparent. With a large guest list and limited ballroom space, Raymond and Shanel made sure no one felt left out.
An LED screen was set up at the foyer so guests could still witness the ceremony, complete with chips and coffee for comfort.
“We wanted everyone to feel included and relaxed, even if they weren’t inside the ballroom,” Shanel explained. It was a simple but powerful gesture, one that honored everyone’s time and presence.
The ceremony itself beautifully balanced tradition and modern touches. Shanel wore red and walked backward, practices rooted in Chinese custom, symbolizing respect and continuity.
Instead of the traditional red backdrop, however, the couple chose sage green. The softer hue allowed them to stand out while giving the setting a calm, contemporary feel.
Food, too, carried meaning. Guests were served misua and eggs; symbols of longevity and fertility. Shanel later discovered a detail that made it even more special: the eggs are served in pairs.
“When you eat them, make sure you preserve the pair,” she laughed, a small tradition that now holds deeper significance.
After the formalities came what the couple fondly remembers as one of the best parts, “Masaya yung kain after.” (The ting hun dinner made everyone happy)
Laughter flowed, conversations lingered, and the joy of being surrounded by loved ones truly sank in.
Behind the seamless flow was a powerhouse team of suppliers who supported the couple every step of the way. From Rosenthal Tee’s gown, Angeline Tan’s makeup, Spoiled Groom’s grooming, to Majic Events’ styling, Tinghun Tris’ coordination, and the dedicated Shangri-La coordinator, each played a vital role.
“They didn’t just do their jobs,” Shanel said. “They were our number one fans. Their energy kept me smiling and confident the whole day.”
WE tip:
When planning your ting hun, try walking through the entire program as if you were a guest. See what they’ll see, feel what they’ll feel. This perspective helps you spot small details; comfort, flow, inclusivity, that make guests feel valued. When your guests feel seen, your celebration becomes truly unforgettable.
Raymond and Shanel’s Dream Team:
Coordination & Ceremony Gift Display: Tinghun Tris
Designer: Rosenthal Tee
MUA: Angeline Tan
Grooming: The Spoiled Groom
Styling: Majic Events
Host: Sherine Koa
Lights and Sounds: High Impact Events
Photogrpahy: Myio Okamoto
Video: Theia Films
Cakes: Miel
Invitations: BYCY
