With over 7,000 islands comprising our nation, it is natural to find a diverse range of cultures and superstitions in every ceremony. Many of these superstitions do not have logical or scientific explanations. But it doesn’t hurt to follow some of them, just as long as it doesn’t go against your values. Just remember to take everything with a grain of salt.
WE listed 10 Filipino wedding superstitions below.
Avoid the “sukob”
The word “sukob” refers to the superstition of getting married in the same year as your sibling, which is considered unlucky. This belief implies that sharing the good fortune between the two couples could result in negative outcomes.
Brides shouldn’t fit their wedding dress
Brides are not allowed to fit their wedding gown the day prior to the wedding as it is believed to potentially bring misfortune to the ceremony or even lead to its cancellation.
No Peeking
Similar to other cultures, it is considered unlucky for the bride and groom to catch a glimpse of each other hours before their big day. Having eye contact with each other before exchanging “I do’s” can bring bad luck or even lead to the cancellation of the wedding.
Sharp objects are a big no-no in weddings
Sharp objects, such as knives, are not allowed at weddings. This belief is not only for the sake of safety but also because giving pointed objects as gifts is believed to bring bad luck and may even lead to a failed marriage.
Avoid traveling
As the wedding day approaches, it is advised that soon-to-be-married couples refrain from traveling or embarking on long drives. It is believed that they are more prone to accidents.
Sticky rice cakes
One common practice is that newly married couples receive a small serving of sticky rice cakes or kakaning malagkit, which is given to them by a cherished relative or close friend. These rice cakes signify their commitment to stick together throughout their married journey.
The iconic arinola
It may sound unusual, but there is a belief that gifting an arinola (chamber pot) can bring good luck to both the giver and the newlywed couple. Some grandmothers practiced placing coins on an unused arinola and shared that the money would multiply.
Newlyweds showered with rice
Grains of rice, representing prosperity and blessings, are traditionally thrown over the newly married couple as they leave the church. In fact, in other provinces, the couple also experiences another shower of rice as they step into their new home or the reception venue.
Break for luck
Another weird superstition that is observed during weddings is the belief that if something, such as a wine glass or plate, is accidentally broken during the reception, it will bring good luck to the newly wedded couple.
More food, more blessings
Speaking with wedding reception, there is a belief that the quantity of food served directly correlates to the abundance of blessings the marriage will attract.
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