Of dragons, phoenixes, and pastels

The engagement of Charles Tan and Diane Uy

A Ting Hun marks the beautiful beginning of two families coming together, where traditions are honored, blessings are shared, and love quietly takes center stage. More than a formal engagement, it is a moment filled with intention, symbolism, and heartfelt connections. For this couple, their Ting Hun was a celebration of heritage softened by modern charm, creating a day that felt intimate, joyful, and unmistakably their own.

From the very beginning, the couple was intentional about balance. “We wanted our Ting Hun to honor our parents and our heritage, but we also wanted it to feel like us,” the bride shared. That vision guided every decision, from décor to program flow.

Classic Dragon and Phoenix symbols, representing masculine and feminine energies, balance, and prosperity, were thoughtfully woven into invitations, attire, and styling. These traditional motifs grounded the celebration in cultural meaning, while a modern pastel blue and pink color palette softened the overall look.

“We loved stepping away from the usual red while still keeping the symbolism intact,” the bride said.

One of the most touching elements was the wishing tree, where guests hung handwritten notes filled with blessings for harmony, happiness, and abundance. The atmosphere felt warm and inclusive, enhanced by mood lighting and a LED wall with live feed, allowing every guest to witness the rituals clearly. An animated logo personalized the visuals, while roving photographers and creative reels captured candid, joyful moments throughout the day.

The ceremony itself followed essential traditions, including the Tea Ceremony, where respect and gratitude were exchanged between generations. The bride wore a red gown inspired by the Phoenix, paired with the groom’s Dragon-inspired suit, both rich in symbolism.

Jewelry sets, ang paos, and fabric gifts were presented during the rites, and guests were respectfully guided on traditional attire etiquette.

Yet the couple also made thoughtful updates. Traditional giveaways like pork legs and misua were replaced with sweet treats like biscuits, glutinous rice, and chocolates, symbolizing unity, strength, and a sweet future together.

“We wanted the meaning to remain, even if the form felt more current,” the bride explained.

Food played a central role, with a lauriat-style banquet that reflected prosperity and acceptance between families. Each dish carried intention, from prawns for happiness to noodles for long life—transforming the meal into a shared blessing.

A rare highlight was the same-day edit video shown before the celebration ended, drawing smiles, laughter, and a few happy tears from both families.

WE tip:
In today’s Ting Hun celebrations, tradition and modernity don’t have to compete. The key is understanding the symbolism behind each ritual, once you know the “why,” you’re free to personalize the “how.”