WE reached out to one of the country’s most talented and creative event coordinators, Ernest Pascual of Bespoke Manila, to share his insights on how weddings have evolved over the years.
Over the last decade and a half, weddings have undergone a remarkable transformation in terms of style, execution, and personalization. What was once a simple celebration of love has become a grand, immersive experience, reflecting the couple’s unique personality and values.
Nearly two decades ago, wedding styling leaned heavily on tradition. The focus was on essential elements: entrance decor, centerpieces, and the couple’s backdrop. These classic features provided an understated yet elegant ambiance that perfectly complemented the solemnity of the occasion. Neutral color palettes and time-honored designs were the go-to choices, ensuring the event felt sophisticated without being overly elaborate. However, these weddings often lacked the customized flair that has become a hallmark of modern celebrations.
Fast forward to today, and the wedding industry has redefined extravagance. Modern weddings often feature immersive themes, larger-than-life floral installations, dramatic lighting, and bespoke decor that turns venues into dreamlike settings. Couples are more invested in creating an unforgettable experience for their guests, often opting for interactive elements like photo booths, live entertainment, and curated dining experiences. Yet, amid this era of extravagance, there’s a subtle return to simplicity—a desire to merge timeless elegance with contemporary trends. Wedding styling is circling back to more intentional designs, blending the classic features of yesteryears with modern twists.
I personally miss simpler setups with less clutter and more breathing space.
The Essence of Classic Elegance
What makes a wedding “classic” and “elegant”? The answer lies in its timelessness. A truly elegant wedding is one where you can look back on the photos years later and still admire its beauty without cringing at outdated trends. It’s defined by refined color palettes, sophisticated decor, and a focus on meaningful details. These elements ensure the day is not only visually stunning but emotionally resonant, creating memories that age gracefully over time.
“In my opinion, a wedding is “classic” and “elegant” if, years later, you can look at your photos and still feel proud, rather than cringing at outdated trends (which come and go).”, shares Pascual
Timeless Elements in Wedding Design
Certain design elements have proven their staying power. Classic bridal gowns with clean lines and traditional silhouettes remain a staple of timeless weddings. Soft color palettes—think whites, creams, and pastels—evoke sophistication and charm that never go out of style.
For decor, candlelight and understated floral arrangements create an intimate yet elegant atmosphere. These choices highlight the essence of beauty without being overbearing, allowing the focus to remain on the couple and their love story.
Bespoke Manila’s Tips for Creating a Timeless Wedding
Stick to Classic Choices: Opt for colors, designs, and decor that exude elegance and sophistication. Soft tones, minimalistic arrangements, and simple floral designs stand the test of time.
Incorporate Personal Touches: Add subtle details that reflect your unique story without succumbing to fleeting trends. Meaningful accents, such as custom vows or heirloom pieces, make your wedding both timeless and personal.
Prioritize Experience Over Aesthetics: While visuals are important, a truly memorable wedding focuses on the comfort and joy of its guests. Create an inviting and inclusive atmosphere that celebrates love in all its forms.
Bespoke Manila: Crafting Timeless Celebrations
Bespoke Manila exemplifies the art of timeless event planning. With over 20 years of experience, the company’s approach centers on collaboration and attention to detail. By fostering strong relationships with local suppliers, Bespoke Manila ensures each event reflects its clients’ unique style and values.
Known for blending elegance with authenticity, Bespoke Manila creates weddings that are refined yet relaxed, stylish yet sincere. Their expertise lies in understanding what makes a celebration meaningful, translating those elements into beautifully executed events. From start to finish, clients are guided through a seamless planning process, with expert advice at every step.
Bespoke Manila remains true to their thrust of giving timeless elegance in weddings or any event. They show that while trends may come and go, the essence of love and celebration remains eternal.
