Love, Waves, and Forever

Featuring Orlando Berces IV and Jamila Bianca Marfil – Berces

Orlando Berces IV and Jamila Bianca Marfil-Berces’ love story began as an unexpected spark—a simple text exchange arranged by a mutual friend. For Jamila, a self-confessed “No Boyfriend Since Birth” (NBSB), Orlando was far from the ideal she had envisioned. Friends warned her about his past, yet she took a leap of faith. What followed was a journey filled with trials, growth, and transformation that ultimately led them to a love worth celebrating.

Their relationship, like the ocean’s waves, had its highs and lows. Breakups and immaturity tested their bond, but Orlando’s unwavering love and determination to become a better man proved that their connection was something extraordinary. Jamila became his inspiration to finish his studies, and he reminded her to find joy in life’s simplicity. Together, they faced challenges, from keeping their relationship a secret to navigating parenthood and building a life as a family.

After years of growth and perseverance, their love culminated in a wedding that was both deeply personal and a dream come true.

Set against the breathtaking shores of Boracay, the wedding was Jamila’s vision of romance—where the sun meets the sea. The décor reflected their love for simplicity and elegance: white and greenery elements highlighted the natural beauty of the surroundings, while a dusty blue motif symbolized their family’s cherished memories.

The ceremony was a collection of heartfelt and unique moments. One particularly unforgettable detail was Jamila’s two older brothers standing alongside her parents at the aisle, a gesture of unity and familial love. Orlando, who lost his father during the pandemic, chose a dear childhood friend’s father to stand in his father’s place—a poignant tribute to a man he deeply admired.

Their daughter, the light of their lives, proudly walked as the ring bearer, a touching symbol of the family they had built together. Even the principal sponsors were thoughtfully chosen—beloved aunts, uncles, and close friends who had been witnesses to their love story from the very beginning.

Personal touches made the wedding even more memorable. Minimalist watercolor portraits served as keepsakes for the entourage, while custom candles and boarding pass-themed photo tokens added whimsy. Their pre-wedding shoot, done just days before the wedding, showcased the vibrant beauty of Boracay and its nightlife. Initially planned for the UK, the shoot was brought closer to home to better capture their personalities and authenticity as a couple.

Even the couple’s rings carried their unique love story. Jamila, ever practical, chose a modest engagement ring to fit her life as a nurse, valuing meaning over expense. She promised Orlando he could buy her a more extravagant ring for their diamond wedding anniversary instead. Orlando, who had little say in other wedding details, designed their wedding bands. When joined, the rings formed a heart and bore their names and wedding date—a timeless symbol of their bond.

Their vows, a mix of playful humor and heartfelt promises, brought laughter and tears to their 120 guests. Despite concerns about the weather, the skies blessed them with a golden sunset that seemed to embrace their union.

For Orlando and Jamila, their wedding wasn’t about extravagance but authenticity. It celebrated their resilience, love, and faith in one another. It was a day that reflected their journey—not just a union of two people, but of a family built on shared dreams and unwavering commitment.

Their love story, much like the waves, is a testament to how love can endure the storms of life and emerge stronger, brighter, and more beautiful. Together, Orlando and Jamila embark on their forever, hand in hand, with hearts full of gratitude and faith in the unending tide of their love.